HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

Happy Birthday To Me! Happy Birthday To Me! Okay, today isn't really my birthday. However, I did have the honor of celebrating 35 years of life on May 2nd. God as been good to me! So good that this year for my birthday, not only did I get to celebrate 35 years here on earth, but this was the first birthday I got to celebrate being married to by best friend. YES, I am a married man! PRAISE GOD! God allowed me to find my Proverbs 31!

  

What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

                                                                  -Mark 10:9(KJV)

You noticed that I said that God allowed  me to find her. That clears up a major error going on in today's society, whether secular or Christian. Ladies you are someones harvest so start praying for the seed sower. It is NOT your job to chase after a man...EVER! So you can stop going to all of your single events hoping to find a man because you are biblically out of order because you have placed yourself in the mode of the seeker instead of positioning yourself to be found..

Now I know you might be saying that, "I am positioning myself, that is why I attend single events and other church functions". 

All I am saying if you start off chasing that man, do not get upset when all throughout the relationship with him, saying you catch him, is you chasing him. You are constantly chasing him down for time. Chasing him down for his attention. You will grow tired because what you did to get into that relationship you will have to do to maintain it.

The problem I have found that most people have is that instead of looking for "Character" a person who displays integrity, they look for a "character" someone who looks like or they believe would play the perfect part or fit the role of husband/wife in there life.

WOW! I just woke up this morning wanting to celebrate God, My wife, & 35 years of life and started talking about this. I believe it is important. A lot of you are dying because you are out of order. The sad thing about it is that you maybe out of order individually because of your submission to a church location who is out of order corporately and not even realize it! I pray for you! 

I want to leave you with this scripture before I close. It is Matthew 6:33(KJV) But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

So instead of focusing all of your attention on trying to be found by a man, get lost in the scriptures so you can find out how God sees you & learn your worth in Christ. That way you wont have to chase a man for validation because with Christ you are already validated!